Imagine a scenario: I am invited to a friend’s home for dinner. The family happens to practice a religion that differs from mine so I respectfully decline to participate in their ritual hand gestures and other sacraments, I just remain seated in silence until they are finished.

Imagine a second scenario: I am invited to a friend’s home for dinner. They happen to practice a religion that differs from mine so I storm out their house in objection when they begin to pray.
In which scenario did I show the most disrespect?

Addendum: I know this doesn’t completely equate to Kaepernick and Pence but I hope it helps illustrate a point.